Co-parenting is challenging enough when both parents are working together. But when you’re dealing with a narcissistic co-parent—or someone who constantly turns parenting into a competition—it can leave you feeling exhausted, second-guessing yourself, and worried about your child’s well-being.
In this episode, Dr. Cam sits down with clinical psychologist Dr. Kibby McMahon, CEO of Kula Mind and expert in personality disorders, to discuss practical strategies for navigating one of the most difficult parenting dynamics. Together, they unpack why narcissistic co-parents thrive on power struggles, how to stop getting pulled into the drama, and what you can do to protect your child while maintaining your own peace of mind. If you’re tired of defending yourself, feeling manipulated, or wondering how to create stability for your child despite a difficult co-parent, this episode offers actionable tools and much-needed reassurance.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
How to recognize narcissistic co-parenting behaviors and avoid getting trapped in endless power struggles
Why the Gray Rock technique can help you respond to a narcissistic co-parent without escalating conflict
How to set healthy boundaries and communicate effectively when collaboration feels impossible
What parents can do to protect children from unhealthy parenting dynamics and build resilience
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Dr. Kibby McMahon
Website: https://coolamind.com
Instagram: @dr.kibby
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CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
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EPISODE CHAPTERS
00:00 Navigating Co-Parenting with a Narcissist
01:10 Meet Dr. Kibby McMahon
02:50 What Narcissism Really Is
05:21 Why Narcissistic Dynamics Become a Competition
09:14 How to Stop Getting Pulled Into the Fight
10:50 The Gray Rock Technique Explained
15:05 Using Collaborative Communication
18:17 Handling Different Parenting Styles
20:56 Helping Kids Navigate Two Households
23:02 Making Requests That Actually Work
25:34 Can Kids Develop Narcissistic Traits?
28:35 Avoiding the Counter-Reaction Trap
30:42 Final Advice for Parents
32:16 Resources and Closing Thoughts
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional Growth.
Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
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