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164. Living Grief: How Author Jackie Disch Turned the Sudden Loss of Her Wife Into a Memoir

  1. 164. Living Grief: How Author Jackie Disch Turned the Sudden Loss of Her Wife Into a Memoir Nikki Smith; Death Doula, Grief Coach, Podcaster, Nature lover 45:11

Kicking off our 4-week Pride Month series celebrating voices from the LGBTQIA+ community, we sit down with Jackie L. Disch.  Jackie is a poet, indie author, and the woman behind a  raw and honest grief memoir;  Losing Katy: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Living Grief.  It is a genre-bending work that weaves together poetic prose, journal entries, and emotional insight to paint an intimate portrait of what she calls “living grief.” The memoir follows her journey from just before the sudden death of her wife, Katy, through the third anniversary of that loss.

In this conversation, Jackie opens up about what it means to lose a spouse without warning, how writing became her lifeline, and why she believes grief isn’t something you get over, it’s something you learn to carry.

Whether you’ve experienced loss yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to hear a story about how deep love can go, this episode is for you.

You can find Jackie here:  jackieldisch.com

And her book: https://www.amazon.com/Losing-Katy-Memoir-Living-Grief/dp/1665310480/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.oj2TLojOcFn0Y-YMTklkbKAOg-1KjX2fWdru89knFdc.6CQFvIBr2EEtyEA1mpvqTcStRSm9Oxk9h0C4wHb9U-o&qid=1756238881&sr=1-1

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Nikki is a death doula, grief coach and podcaster, serving the terminally ill, dying, elderly and their loved ones with dignity and respect. Her goal is to help others embrace the end of life and share open and honest communication with their loved ones. She can take the burden and hold space so you can focus on what matters most in your final days and leave this world at peace.