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How to Be a Trusted Adult: Showing Up for Today’s Kids Without Taking Over with Chris McLaughlin, MSW, LCSW

  1. How to Be a Trusted Adult: Showing Up for Today’s Kids Without Taking Over with Chris McLaughlin, MSW, LCSW Guidance Point Advisors, LLC. 57:29

Ep 124: What does it really mean to be a trusted adult in a young person’s life?

In this episode of The Retirement Success in Maine Podcast, we welcome back a favorite guest of ours, Chris McLaughlin, MSW, LCSW, for a powerful conversation about connection across generations.

Together, we explore why today’s youth are facing unprecedented levels of pressure, isolation, comparison, and Mental Health challenges, and why retirees, grandparents, mentors, neighbors, and volunteers may play a more important role than ever before.

Chris shares practical ways adults can build trust with children and teens without being overbearing, judgmental, or out of touch. From navigating Technology and social media to supporting struggling youth and balancing Family dynamics, this episode offers thoughtful guidance for anyone who wants to show up more meaningfully for the next generation.

Whether you’re a grandparent trying to stay connected, a mentor looking to make a difference, or simply someone who wants to better understand today’s kids, this conversation is full of Wisdom, empathy, and actionable takeaways.

Chapters:

Introduction & Why Trusted Adults Matter – The important role retirees can play in the lives of today’s youth [00:01]

What Builds Trust with Kids Today – Curiosity, authenticity, consistency, and avoiding common relationship mistakes [04:04]

The Pressures Facing Modern Youth – Social media, comparison culture, belonging, and mental Health challenges [12:22]

Building Connection Across Generations – Grandparents, Parenting dynamics, communication, and showing up without pressure [19:10]

Technology, Social Media & Safety – Understanding digital life without needing to fully live in it [29:39]

Supporting Youth Through Mental Health Struggles – Warning signs, suicide prevention, and the responsibility of trusted adults [42:06]

Benjamin Smith Host, Retirement Success in Maine Podcast & Financial Advisor

Ben's focus with our clients is to direct the investments of their investable portfolios. In teaming with Curtis Worcester and Austin Minor, Ben combines his investment expertise from attaining the CFA Charter with Curtis & Austin's financial planning expertise to provide clients with the tools, confidence, and education to make informed decisions about their retirement. As Ben, Curtis, and Austin have a number of clients that are Northern Light Health employees, they've developed a specialty in serving clients in the healthcare field. You can read their "Employee Guide to the Northern Light Health Retirement Plans" here.

He has spent his entire career devoted to serving individual clients and institutions by developing and implementing investment strategies, setting portfolio structure, and providing the highest level of client service. He's passionate about helping clients maximize their savings and retirement income using the many financial planning and portfolio management tools available to Guidance Point consultants. Prior to working for Guidance Point Advisors, Ben worked for Acadia Trust, N.A., a subsidiary of Camden National Corporation, as Vice President, Portfolio Manager based in Bangor, Maine. Ben assumed responsibility for and oversight of over $300 million in client portfolios, including individuals, families, retirement plans, endowments, foundations, businesses, and trusts; and he served on the Company’s Investment Committee.