My guest, Dr. Bella DePaulo, celebrates those who are happily single. She is the leading expert on single life, and her TEDx talk on the topic now has more than 1.6 million views. She received her PhD from Harvard, spent two decades as a psychology professor at the University of Virginia, and is an academic affiliate at UC Santa Barbara. She is the author of SINGLE AT HEART.

In this episode:

• The definition of “single at heart”
• Why people who are single at heart Love being single so much
• Doesn’t everyone want to have a romantic partner? 
• The positive benefits of embracing a single life 
• Reactions to the Single at Heart book

Connect with Bella

• X: @belladepaulo
• Bluesky: @belladepaulo.bsky.social 
• IG: @bellasingleatheart
• FB: @singleatheartbook  @belladepaulo
• YouTube: @BellaDePaulo
• Website: https://belladepaulo.com/

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