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January 8th, 2023

EP 43: Real Confidence- The Opportunity Cost of Confidence

  1. EP 43: Real Confidence- The Opportunity Cost of Confidence Alyssa Dver 19:27

We make tens of thousands of decisions every day and most of them we’re not even aware are decisions. You get in the car to drive the store and you make the unconscious decision to go the way you always go. You might think that’s a habit, but a habit is just a series of decisions that collect over time.

So we know intellectually that we’re capable of making decisions, so why do our brains freak out when we’re consciously aware that we need to make one?

It doesn’t matter if it’s a business decision, which house to put an offer on or what shoes to buy, when it comes to deciding, it’s like we forget we’re smart, capable human beings.

And that’s exactly what we do. When the amygdala takes over, we forget that a) we are capable of gathering the information we need to make a confident decision and b) that no decision we make will ever come with a 100% success guarantee.

That’s where the concept of opportunity cost, which I first learned about in business school, can be a lifesaver because with every decision we make, we’re trading some things for other – time, Money, skills, access, materials.

Understanding opportunity cost – and how to apply it – helps you look at your pool of resources, whatever they are, and get closer to the best possible, most confident decision, faster.

And if you think decision making, with or without applying the concept of opportunity cost, happens only in your head, think again. Your body contains a kind of second brain that also provides valuable information when your amygdala is wigging out and you don’t know which way to turn.

Want to know more? Click through to listen. That’s one confident decision you can make right now.

Alyssa Dver Confidence Crusader & Neuro Nerd

Confidence Crusader, Neuro Nerd and Success Equalizer, Alyssa Dver leads the American Confidence Institute and the global association ERG Leadership Alliance that directly helps all workplaces be more diverse, equitable and inclusive. She received a Stevie Award for Thought Leadership, has two TEDx talks, hosts the popular podcasts Real Confidence and Distilled Confidence, and authored 8 expert-endorsed books including “Confidence is a Choice: Real Science. Superhero Impact.” and “ERG Intelligence.” She can be seen delivering 150+ talks each year, coaching at MIT and Wharton innovation centers and as spokesperson for both L’Oreal’s IT Cosmetics brand and The American Distilling Institute.