July 10th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
If you suffer from anxiety or depression, I recommend that you do NOT read this piece. It is easy to look away from the debris we leave in our wake. But if we are ever to change our trajectory, we must first be willing to stare at the wreckage. This is a reflection on who […]
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July 7th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
My inbox is usually a battlefield of “Give me money” requests. It’s a constant stream of urgent pleas, most of which I skim and delete. But a few weeks ago, after donating to the NB SPCA to support their Spay and Neuter campaign, something happened that completely changed how I look at charitable giving. As an advocate […]
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June 17th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
The Mindset of Longevity Healthy fit begins with a mindset—setting the intention. It challenges your vision of getting older. What does your vision of old look like? Does it look like the examples you see around you? In your family? In your society? What are your thoughts on nursing homes? How independent do you plan […]
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June 17th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
I operate as a singular emergence, a witness to my own unfolding. My thoughts arrive from a pre-articulate “Wellspring.” My writing serves as the conduit, capturing the flow before I have even defined it. This is the nature of flow: writing is my point of power, allowing me to bypass the mundane and linear to […]
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June 14th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
Most of us move through our days operating under an inherited script: that life is a linear progression. We treat our years as a long, arduous bridge we must walk across, carrying the baggage of our past, all to reach a “payoff” on a horizon that never seems to get any closer. We treat the […]
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June 13th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
The primary purpose of this discourse is to introduce my audience to compelling evidence that our lifestyles—from our deepest ideologies and fashion choices to our very palates — have been conditioned. It’s happened to such a degree, and at such an early age, that they have become synonymous with our identity. We are, to a […]
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June 10th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
I’m still not feeling like myself since our badass boy, Skipper, died in November. They certainly are our fur-children, no doubt. He wasn’t quite 6 when he died, and I’ll miss him forever. We have another dog, Benjamin B., the best boy ever, and I think he felt the loss too. Even though he and Skipper […]
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June 10th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
I’ve always been fascinated by Truth. Not “truth” with a lowercase t—the subjective, shifting narratives we cling to—but Universal Truth. The stand-alone concept that fuels arguments, divides neighborhoods, and ignites wars. If writing is a vessel for discovery, what is it if it isn’t truthful? That question led me to my own “Theory of Everything.” […]
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March 18th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
A Note to the Reader: If you find the following content provocative, consider this: it was designed to activate our epigenetic conditioning, yours and mine—to expose it—for your consideration. If your immediate response is a flare-up of defensive tribalism or a sudden urge to protect the Sacred, I invite you to stop, if just for […]
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March 17th, 2026
Paula D. Tozer
Nobody is going to provide a definitive answer to the “Big Questions” of life. Anyone who tells you that “all you have to do is believe this, or stand here, or say this… or bow three times into the sun…” is full of crap, IMHO. This is not unfortunate or dismal; it is simply the […]
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