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How To See Your Relationship With A Woman As It Really Is – MTP 516

  1. How To See Your Relationship With A Woman As It Really Is - MTP 516 Scot McKay 38:21

Co-Host Dr. John DeMartini (https://mountainoppodcast.com/perceptions) It’s easy to get kind of a warped perspective on our relationship with a certain woman–or women in general, really–especially if we’ve gone through a bit of a “dry spell” or haven’t yet experienced the kind of success we’d really like. In those cases, we already know we need a whole new way of looking at things because what we’re doing is openly sabotaging our chances with the very women we want. My first-time guest Dr. John DeMartini is a world-famous human behavior expert, and he has powerful ways of reframing and/or even resetting how we as men look at Relationships with women. First off, how is it we as men put women on a pedestal at best, or completely dismiss them as “out of our league” at worst? And how do we repair that mindset? What does “The Miracle Of Selfhood” have to do with how our perceptions of women get so warped and unbalanced? What does John mean when he says, “envy is ignorance, imitation is suicide”? What’s the difference between a caring and a careful relationship? Why is comparing our gifts and liabilities to those of our significant other often fatal to a relationship over time? How do different parts of our brain preside over different aspects of our relationships with women? Do we really “belong to each other”? What’s the essential reframe there? And finally, what do we as men do that only proves we deserve the chaos and the drama that ensues in the relationship? Overall, this is one of those conversations that smart guys Love, so enjoy. Take the new Reality Check Inventory quiz at: https://mountaintoppodcast.com/

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Scot McKay Dating Strategist

Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on Twitter by Scott Adams, of all people.

But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.

He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original content in his field, if only because that’s what seventeen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.

Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.

His show The Mountain Top has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com, and a long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.