SHOW NOTES

In this inspiring episode, I visit with Cynthia and Kameron Haller to explore what it truly means to live a life of purpose—especially in the later years.

With 6 children and nearly 28 grandchildren, the Hallers made a bold decision: step away from Family for 18 months to serve a mission in Northern Ireland. What they discovered wasn’t just about service; it was about rediscovering identity, expanding influence, and living with intention.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The Decision to Serve

• Why did they choose to leave family behind to serve
• The role of faith, purpose, and Legacy in that decision
• How “living in crescendo” shaped their mindset

What Is “Living in Crescendo”?

• The idea that your most important work is always ahead of you
• The contrast between crescendo vs. diminuendo living
• Why purpose, and not Retirement, is the key to fulfillment

Service in Action

• Supporting local communities and young missionaries
• Building Relationships across cultures (including a Filipino community in Ireland)
• Helping integrate a Romanian couple into a new life

Unexpected Impact

• Starting a Pickleball movement in Northern Ireland
• Volunteering in charity shops alongside other faith communities
• Creating meaningful connections beyond religion

Influence on Family

• How their example inspired a granddaughter to serve
• Strengthening relationships through intentional communication
• The power of showing vs. telling

Simple Ways to Serve

• Why small acts matter more than you think
• Stories of impact, from knitting slippers to donating a single can of soup
• How to match your strengths with real needs

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Your purpose doesn’t end when your career does
• Service is one of the fastest ways to find joy and meaning
• Influence grows when you step outside your comfort zone
• Grandchildren learn more from what you do than what you say
• Small, consistent acts of kindness create lasting impact

ACTION ITEMS FOR LISTENERS

1. Identify one cause you care about and take a small step this week
2. Ask yourself: Am I living in crescendo or diminuendo?
3. Reach out to a local organization and ask about their needs
4. Start a simple act of service (weekly giving, mentoring, helping a neighbor)
5. Share your values through action, not just words

Links

You can use this link to listen to my first conversation with Cynthia about the book she wrote with her father, Steven Covey: https://cool-grandpa.us/2024/03/08/ep-172-live-life-in-crescendo/

Here is the link for you to purchase your own copy of one of the best books written about living a larger life, Live Life in Crescendo: https://www.amazon.com/Live-Life-Crescendo-Important-Always/dp/B09TX18ZWG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1MH0W27J6LI0B&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.UNPkNprdvWYjFSHTAoc3Gt2m1S8J7wE0c32Qbr2IdrhLjpBnv10hKDEyFiiylhUUFIyuBlN-q_BOzBDIaMWSLQKq0TW4WLFIA3DIhDNVaV4.qLStzdIy7wFazJjiH3lpDqWKUyaJCI49gDb2pfTuonM&dib_tag=se&keywords=live+life+in+crescendo+book&qid=1776906746&sprefix=live+life+in+crescendo+%2Caps%2C292&sr=8-1

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