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October 16th, 2025 Mature Content

Intimacy and Shame

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When it comes to intimacy, have you ever felt like you aren’t normal? Maybe you’ve experienced Trauma, and that’s left you with shame, embarrassment, and fear. Now, it feels easier to just go through the motions, forgetting about any enjoyment for yourself, because you don’t think you’re worth it, or you’re too embarrassed to discuss the topic with your partner.

Leah Carey is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping people release the fear and shame so they can reclaim their power when it comes to intimacy. Leah experienced abuse as a child and the devastation of losing her mother to Cancer. She decided it was time to heal: learn that she was worthy and deserving of good things. She took quite the path to find healing, and now she helps other people release the barriers that prevent them from feeling whole when it comes to intimacy.

From her website, leahcarey.com:

Growing up, my father’s abuse taught me two things: 1) I was undesirable in every way, and 2) since I was never good enough, I was the problem.

It took me 42 years, a lot of heartache, and so much unpleasurable s*x to realize that being a “good girl” who doubted her worth wasn’t actually working. When my mother passed away from cancer, I was devastated. But she was also the final tether to the old story of myself as the “good girl.” With both my parents gone, I could finally find out who I am.

I got rid of everything but the essentials, threw all my possessions in the car, and drove away from the familiar life I had known. I planned to spend a year traveling the United States in search of adventure and the next place I wanted to live.

What I found was a s*xual awakening and healing I could have never known was coming. I sought out s*xy experiences I’d never allowed myself to have before, took classes on consent, boundaries, s*xual communication, and more.

I stared straight into the face of the beast and dared to ask: “Am I really broken? Is it true that I’m undesirable? Am I actually meant to go the rest of my life without pleasure or true companionship?”

The answer to every one of those questions came back loud and clear: NO.I no longer believe that “good girls” are quiet and docile and take care of everyone else’s needs before their own.
I learned how to embrace my true s*xual identity, and I can guide you to do the same.

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Claudia King Claudia King, Podcast Host and Live TV Analyst

Claudia is a Live TV personality, Podcast Host, and Motivational Speaker who is also an advocate for survivors and chronic illness warriors.
In addition to live TV and podcasting, Claudia works with businesses and individuals to identify confidence crushers and uncover how they will often hold back personal and professional success. Claudia provides fool-proof and engaging ways to show how past trauma can affect our current confidence, reduce and eliminate impostor syndrome, and communicate more effectively, allowing increased confidence and more self-esteem, which translates into happier, more successful, and more productive individuals.
With over ten years of experience creating and presenting corporate trainings and continuing education and five-plus years on-camera experience, the ability to make meaningful connections with audiences, and a tenacious desire to help people drop their self-doubt in favor of unwavering confidence, Claudia knows how to command an audience, connect with a crowd, and provide workable action steps that will leave the audience eager and able to make positive changes in their lives. Claudia’s keen ability to connect with others to learn and understand motivations and needs leads to increased productivity and stronger team dynamics.
Claudia’s humor, sarcasm, and ability to be open and vulnerable about her own experiences immediately creates trust with the audience and makes them feel like they’re chatting with an old friend. Claudia captivates groups from the moment she takes the floor, and her tried-and-true techniques empower individuals immediately, providing them the buy-in they need to continue to do the work to create their best and most confident selves.