You moved your loved one into assisted living, signed the paperwork and finally exhaled… then came the phone call no Family wants to receive: “We can no longer meet their care needs.” In this episode, Valerie breaks down why assisted living communities sometimes ask residents to move, what families need to know about aging in place, licensing and discharge notices and how to advocate if this happens to someone you Love. This is an emotional topic that leaves many families feeling shocked, guilty or blindsided – but understanding the why behind these decisions can help families feel more prepared a little less overwhelmed and help make things a little more doable.

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Get help navigating the senior living industry! Valerie Lynn Borgman has been helping families find assisted living, memory care and other resources since 2015 through her consulting company, Clear Path Senior Living Solutions. She's a Certified Senior Advisor, a Certified Referral and Placement Specialist, Speaker & Host of the Podcast Desperately Seeking Senior Living. In an industry with NO required certifications she holds 2.

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