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Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.
Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.
You’re Nicer To Everyone Else Than You Are To Your Spouse!
You’re nice to your boss. Nice to strangers. Nice to friends.
Then you come home… and your spouse gets the worst of you.
Cass was the life of the party—charismatic, funny, “confident.”
Then they’d get in the cab… and he’d lay into Kathryn.
He was the life of the party. Charismatic. Funny. Everybody loved him.
Then they'd get in the cab — and he'd lay into her.
“You're nicer to everyone else than you are to your spouse” has been Cass's most viral content for years — the post, the reel, and now the song (“She Deserves Your Best”). This episode is the full teaching behind why it hits so hard.
Because it's not that you know better and choose not to. It's that you're performing for approval you're not getting at home. And when the approval doesn't come from your partner — you take it out on them.
🔑 What we cover:
• The origin story: life of the party, then screaming in the cab — Catherine's firsthand account
• Catherine's hard reframe: “You don't actually know better. You're putting on a show.”
• Why the performance breaks down with your spouse (and not with your boss or friends)
• Why seeking external approval while punishing your partner is the same impulse
• It goes both ways — men and women both do this
• The nice guy triangle: Man 1 loves → Man 2 pulls back and copes → Man 3 lectures and explodes
• Covert contracts: “I do this so you'll Love me for that” — and why they always collapse
• “My definition of narcissism — or any abuser — is you don't know who you are”
• Catherine was the catalyst: not because she did “the work” — because she started her journey first
• The best and worst qualities are the same thing — the shark example
• How to love your partner as well as you treat everyone else (and what that actually takes)
🔗 Explore more resources and our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/
Join Cass Morrow and Kathryn Morrow, the resilient couple behind Morrow Marriage. Together, we share our unscripted, raw, and against-the-grain journey of saving our marriage from the depths of Hell. We battle narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, and physical and sexual assault, offering lessons, actionable steps, and real-life examples to inspire couples worldwide.
Our journey is a testament to overcoming adversity, with challenges including Cass’ restraining order, seven separations, and two divorce lawyers. If we can survive and thrive in toxic, abusive, and sexless marriages, what’s your excuse?
Both books are searchable on Amazon and often purchased together:
Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man by Cass Morrow: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV
Behind The White Picket Fence by Kathryn Morrow: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp
Discover our story, challenge societal norms, and help disrupt the 78% divorce rate. Subscribe, comment, and share if you find value as we strive to save marriages.
What to Watch Next:
Explore our journey through our podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4
Access courses, training, tools, and books at https://www.morrowmarriage.com/
Connect on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cassfostermorrow
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassfostermorrow
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cassfostermorrow
Learn More About Kathryn:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KMorrowMarriage
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— Cass
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MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage
Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their Family together. Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.
Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage – currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.
Inspiring couples around the world…
If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage – not only survive it all… but THRIVE… what’s your excuse?
Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.
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