What do you do when the doors you’ve worked for keep closing because of factors you can’t control? In this episode, Rebeca Lopez Valerio shares how she turned “no” into fuel, built opportunities from scratch, and learned to lead with coraje, heart-forward courage rooted in identity, resilience, and values.
Rebeca’s story is powerful and deeply human. Born in Mexico with Indigenous roots from the Oaxaca/Puebla region, she immigrated to the U.S. at age four and navigated life as a first-generation student, while also carrying the realities of being undocumented during key years of her Education and career journey. Together, we talk about what it really takes to keep showing up when the stakes are high, and how community can be the difference between feeling stuck and finding your way forward.
In this episode, we cover:
Indigenous heritage, language loss, and the impact of “dialects being looked down on”
First-generation student survival: why community often beats 1:1 mentorship
How to lead with ambition without being defined by hardship
Rejection as strategy: building your brand through projects, businesses, and Relationships
Sustainable fashion + AI: how Apparel Assist aims to reduce clothing waste by starting in our closets
Guest bio:
Rebeca Lopez Valerio is a hardware engineer, entrepreneur, and community builder. A first-generation immigrant with a background in electrical engineering, she co-founded Apparel Assist, a sustainable fashion startup exploring how AI can help people rewear what they already own and reduce clothing waste.
Timestamps (highlights):
00:01 – Meet Rebeca + the cultures that formed her
01:11 – Indigenous roots and the reality of language loss
05:44 – Immigrating at age four + education access
08:59 – Most overlooked resource for first-gen students: community
15:11 – “No” after “no”: how Rebeca built her personal brand
24:39 – Practical strategy: relationships, reps, and showing up anyway
29:56 – From cleaning business to Apparel Assist (AI + sustainability)
42:39 – Where to find Rebeca + Apparel Assist on Instagram
Bonus: 00:01 – Legacy: impact through everyday interactions
Follow Apparel Assist on Instagram, where Rebeca and her team are sharing the story behind their AI-powered sustainable fashion platform and inviting community conversation.
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