This episode: The Haircut That Changed Everything: A Son’s Breaking Point and Bob Hayek’s Comeback That Followed.
Here’s what you’ll learn about:
Introduction and Initial Greetings (0:01)
- Host Drew Deraney thanks the person who introduced him to Guest Bob Hayek, mentioning a networking group from 2020.
- Drew discusses the concept of life being linear until external circumstances disrupt it, leading to different paths.
- He introduces three types of men: those who don’t see adversity, those who blame others, and those who see adversity as an opportunity for Growth.
- Drew invites Bob Hayek to share his defining moment that transformed him.
Bob Hayek’s Defining Moment (27:07)
- Bob Hayek recounts a moment when he cut his father’s hair in the VA hospital, leading to a profound realization.
- Bob shares that his father passed away two days later, and he had a nervous breakdown.
- He describes a moment of self-realization while mowing the lawn, recognizing his achievements and independence.
- Bob’s transformation led to his Divorce, as his Personal Development clashed with his wife’s stagnation.
Bob’s Journey Post-Divorce (27:30)
- Bob meets a high school friend in Florida, leading to a shared living arrangement.
- His friend passes away in his arms, causing significant emotional turmoil.
- Bob struggles with Dating and nearly gives up, but eventually meets Vivian, who becomes a pivotal figure in his life.
- Bob and Vivian’s initial meeting involves a unique arrangement that leads to a deeper connection.
Bob’s Relationship with His Children (27:50)
- Bob discusses the devastating impact of his children accusing him of harming their mother.
- He explains the miscommunication and misunderstanding that led to his children’s accusations.
- Bob’s relationship with his daughter improves, but his son remains affected.
- He emphasizes the importance of Vivian’s support during these challenging times.
Bob’s Career Transition and Achievements (28:09)
- Bob shares his journey from being a musician to working in the semiconductor industry.
- He recounts a significant incident where he successfully negotiated a deal despite initial rejection.
- Bob transitions to the insurance industry, driven by the residual income potential.
- His determination and hard work lead to success in the insurance business.
Introduction to ASEA and Health Challenges (28:50)
- Bob introduces ASEA, a company that produces products that communicate with the immune system.
- He shares his personal health challenges, including being diagnosed with MS.
- Bob moves to Florida to improve his health, and Vivian supports him throughout the transition.
- His involvement with ASEA leads to significant health improvements and a new business venture.
Bob’s Involvement with ASEA and Future Plans (29:09)
- Bob discusses the benefits of ASEA’s products, including the Redox supplement and RENU 28 gel.
- He shares a personal story of using the gel to alleviate shoulder pain.
- Bob explains the science behind ASEA’s products and their impact on health.
- He mentions upcoming changes in ASEA’s compensation plan and its potential benefits.
Advice for Young Bob and Entrepreneurs (29:30)
- Bob advises his younger self to have confidence and pursue his dreams without fear of judgment.
- He advises young entrepreneurs to be driven, persistent, and consistent in their efforts.
- Bob emphasizes the importance of seeking guidance and staying focused on goals.
- He concludes by expressing gratitude for the opportunity to share his story and experiences.
To learn more about Bob’s mission, go to his LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertjhayek59/ or his website at https://go.thryv.com/site/FinancialIndependenceLLC.
Bob Hayek Bio
I have been a financial advisor since 1993 and now own Financial Independence, LLC We help individuals and business owners become debt free. In 2020 I found a bio tech company with a product that changed my health.
About your host: I’m Drew Deraney, the proud father of three children. For most of my life I’ve been concerned with what people thought of me and how I was supposed to act. I learned not to be my authentic self and instead became a people pleaser, a man wearing a mask.
In a 9-month span a few years ago, I endured four faith-shaking life events that caused me to question my existence.
I became determined to find a better way to live. Through intense self-reflection and awareness, I realized that in order to be happy, I must adhere to my standards of honesty, integrity and truth and needed to break free from the belief system that was anchored in me for close to 50 years.
I now believe that success happens when we find a better way and are willing and able to share it. HOW I do that is by challenging the status quo and thinking differently. Ultimately, WHAT I bring to the table is a way to contribute and add value by having an impact on the lives of others.
My company, Profit Compassion LLC consists of 3 paths:
The Caregiver Family Health Coach: coach for caregivers of individuals with special needs, including Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). For Caregivers who are open to a conversation about how I can support you on your Caregiving journey: I help caregivers find balance, build resilience, and rediscover their own well-being. Through personalized Coaching, I provide practical strategies, emotional support, and the tools to reduce Burnout, strengthen Relationships, and navigate the challenges of caregiving with confidence. My goal is to empower you to care for yourself as compassionately as you care for your loved one.
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Join me in transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Let’s embark on this journey together.
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Drew Deraney now travels the world both to Live and Virtual Events showing mostly men the steps needed to strengthen self-identity and self-worth, to overcome self-limiting beliefs, and to build confidence while being authentic, maintaining boundaries and to transcend people pleasing skills to become the person they are destined to be. Drew challenges them to reach deep inside and make a lasting impact.
In a 9-month span, Drew experienced a grueling divorce, job loss, his son’s suicidal ideations, and his father’s death which devastated Drew emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. It is a commonality for men to consider any challenge as a weakness as well as to show emotion and ask for help. While writing his book, Drew realized he was not the only man suffering in silence. With more clarity of purpose than ever, he began asking for help. Drew Deraney’s mission is to help especially men, release their inner greatness by showing vulnerability, keeping in integrity of their power, and making a great impact on the people in their lives both personally and professionally.
Drew Deraney was born in Brooklyn, NY and raised in Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ where he still lives to this day caring for his elderly mom and his 3 adult children Matthew, Nicholas, and Emma. Drew earned his B.A. in Psychology, M.A. in Applied Psychology, and two psychology research publications while at Fairfield University; a scholarship from the Healthcare Financial Management Association; and his M.B.A. in Health Care Administration from Baruch College / Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NY. His hospital career spanned 24 years where he was co-chair of the Leadership Institute, spoke at JD Power, was one of three leaders interviewed by The Commonwealth Fund, received his Communicating with Empathy Trainer certification and is a Certified Patient Experience Professional. Four years ago, Drew founded Profit Compassion LLC, an entity to coach and empower mostly men to create resiliency and authenticity as Chief Resilience Officer. Drew is the podcast host of ‘From Caving in to Crushing It’ and recently became a best-selling author with his book ‘I’ll Have What She’s Having’ - Memoir of a reformed People Pleaser.
