In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of Relationships, exploring the vital topic of reigniting the spark in long-term partnerships.

Whether you're in the early years of Love or decades into a Marriage, this episode is crafted to help you rediscover the passion that may seem to have dimmed over time.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The Myth of the 'Long Hot Marriage': I'll debunk the myth that long-term relationships are destined to cool off and show you how to keep the flame burning.
• Time and Attention as Nourishment: Discover how Investing even the smallest amount of focused time can rejuvenate your relationship's energy.
• The Sequence of Connection: Learn why initiating connection through actions can lead to deeper emotional responses and reignite lost feelings.
• Understanding Desire: We'll explore the concept of sexual accelerators and brakes, providing you with the knowledge to better understand your partner's needs and your own.
• The Importance of Playfulness and Risk: I'll share insights on how being playful and taking risks can open up new levels of Intimacy and enjoyment in your relationship.

Throughout this conversation, you'll gain not just theories but practical strategies that you can apply immediately to your life and relationship. This episode is about more than just rediscovering passion; it's about creating a lasting bond that thrives on mutual understanding, joy, and a willingness to grow together.

So, if you're ready to breathe new life into your relationship and reconnect with your partner in ways you might not have imagined, this is the episode for you.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout the world virtually and also in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

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Todd Creager Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.