Learn about creating opportunities in your community for conversations about death.

My guest Stefanie Elkins is a Family Caregiver Consultant, end-of-life doula, founder of Be Present Care, and the creator of Death Over Drafts, a community event held at breweries across the country to spark meaningful conversations around death and Dying. She’ll share her experience bringing end-of-life conversations to community spaces where people naturally gather and how we can make a difference in someone’s end-of-life journey by helping them talk about death and Grief. Learn more about Stefanie’s work at her website:

www.bepresentcare.com

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This episode includes:

• How Stefanie helps patients and families at the end of life
• What inspired Death Over Drafts
• Who attends Death Over Drafts and examples of the conversations that have taken place
• Why conversations about death are important
• Why we need to meet people where they are and bring death Education to various venues and spaces
• How to bring Death Over Drafts to your own community
• Why end-of-life workers need to do their own work planning for the end of life
• How families can support the Aging and prepare for the inevitable

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Register for Death Over Drafts on May 19th (Torrance CA)
• For more information: https://www.deathoverdrafts.com/
• Silent Book Club of Death: https://silentbookclub.substack.com/p/silent-book-club-of-death
• Get EOLU Podcast Merch here
• Conversations on Death with ChatGPT – Audiobook here; Print Book here
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