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Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.
Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.
Sexless Marriage — The Real Definition!
The clinical definition of a sexless marriage is 6 months or more without sex. But Cass Morrow's definition starts much earlier.
If she's having sex with you because she feels sorry for you — that's pity sex. You're not connecting. You're being managed. If she's having sex with you because she's afraid of what happens if she doesn't — that's fear sex. She consented, but not freely.
Kathryn Morrow drops the bomb: if one or both of you isn't fully present and wanting it — is it actually sex? It's the act of sex, but not what sex is supposed to be. So are you in a sexless marriage? Probably.
In Ep452 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow break down the real definition of a sexless marriage — and what it actually takes to get out of one.
🔑 What we cover:
• Why the 6-month clinical definition misses what's actually happening in most marriages
• Pity sex: why managing your mood with sex is already a form of a sexless marriage
• Fear sex: she consents, but she's afraid — what that means and what you've created
• Kathryn's expansion: if she's not into it, you're not having sex — you're performing it
• The scorekeeping trap — Cass tracked sex down to the hour, and why that destroyed Intimacy
• The moment Kathryn pulled back for a month and what she said: “We haven't had a fight. Must feel safe.”
• The 30-day reset: why Cass teaches men to go 30 days without sex (and what to do instead)
• The rejection ladder: do you want a hug-less marriage? Then initiate — everything, not just sex
• “Initiate, not force” — how to breed connection without pressuring
• The job analogy: doing something you don't want to do for a boss who's an asshole
If your wife has s*ex with you but you can feel she's not there — this episode is for you.
🔗 Explore more resources and our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/
Join Cass Morrow and Kathryn Morrow, the resilient couple behind Morrow Marriage. Together, we share our unscripted, raw, and against-the-grain journey of saving our marriage from the depths of Hell. We battle narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, and physical and sexual assault, offering lessons, actionable steps, and real-life examples to inspire couples worldwide.
Our journey is a testament to overcoming adversity, with challenges including Cass’ restraining order, seven separations, and two divorce lawyers. If we can survive and thrive in toxic, abusive, and sexless marriages, what’s your excuse?
Both books are searchable on Amazon and often purchased together:
Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man by Cass Morrow: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV
Behind The White Picket Fence by Kathryn Morrow: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp
Discover our story, challenge societal norms, and help disrupt the 78% divorce rate. Subscribe, comment, and share if you find value as we strive to save marriages.
What to Watch Next:
Explore our journey through our podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4
Access courses, training, tools, and books at https://www.morrowmarriage.com/
Connect on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cassfostermorrow
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cassfostermorrow
Learn More About Kathryn:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KMorrowMarriage
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— Cass
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MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage
Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their Family together. Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.
Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage – currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.
Inspiring couples around the world…
If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage – not only survive it all… but THRIVE… what’s your excuse?
Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.
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