I Thought I d Be Done by Now is a book of 183 one-page stories that provide courage, comfort and guidance to worried mothers of adult children. Each essay ends with a one-sentence summarizing lesson. Issues addressed include releasing guilt, learning to lighten up, and letting go of control. A topical index is included. “This book is a treasure trove of practical ideas and inspiration to calm, encourage and help mothers grow. Jane Monachelli, psychotherapist, mother of an adult child