At 49, Tracy Smith booked a trip to Ireland with friends. Then she changed the flight. Then she changed it again. What began as a group vacation slowly turned into arriving in Iceland alone… with no clear plan home.
In this episode, Tracy talks about how travel became the vehicle for reclaiming parts of herself she had set aside during years of Parenting and managing daily life. The shifts were not dramatic. They started small. Taking a new job. Going to dinner instead of cooking. Letting her son walk home from school. Saying yes to herself in ways she had not before.
She also reflects on something unexpected. At home, she often felt invisible in the routines of everyday life. Abroad, even as a stranger, she felt seen. That difference changed how she approached connection, belonging, and identity.
Her memoir, The Purpose of Getting Lost, explores that evolution. In this conversation, she shares how solo travel reshaped her confidence, her Relationships with her kids, and her understanding of what it means to choose yourself in midlife.
Connect with Tracy:
Substack:
https://tracytravelseverywhere.substack.com/
Website:
https://tracysmithauthor.com/
Book – The Purpose of Getting Lost (Amazon affiliate link):
https://amzn.to/4shPDIe
CHATPERS
00:00 Rewriting Your Story
02:30 The Trip That Kept Changing
05:26 Realizing She Had Changed
08:11 The Pre–Empty Nest Shift
12:37 Fitting In vs Belonging
16:22 From Tour Guide to Wedding Guest
21:08 Building Connection After the Kids Leave
24:53 Learning to Say Yes to Yourself
26:45 What Her Kids Think
29:06 Where to Find Tracy
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