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Storytelling is powerful. So powerful that it can shape a life’s courseIn the spirit of National Mentoring Month, I’d like to share the story of my relationship with my grandfather and how his storytelling shaped my life. My first mentor was my grandfather, Charles S. Crook, II, a decorated Captain in the US Army in World War II, who is now buried in Arlington Cemetery. As soon as I turned five, my grandfather made it a tradition to pick me up in his big 1970s Cadillac convertible to run errands with him in downtown Des Moines, Iowa. He was a six-foot tall man with... Continue Reading
As the New Year unfolds, empty nesters find themselves at a unique crossroads. With children now grown and out of the house, it’s the perfect time to focus on your own financial well-being. As you bid farewell to the bustling chaos of a full household, embrace the opportunity to streamline your finances and set exciting new goals. In this blog, we’ll explore key financial resolutions to help empty nesters make the most of this new chapter in life. 1. Reevaluate Your Budget: The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming... Continue Reading
Have you ever had that sinking feeling when your favorite thing starts to feel like…duty? Think about reading. I remember years ago devouring page after page in book after book. Now, even picking up a book feels like a chore. After all of my emails and work-related reading, I feel like I need a break. But why? Turns out, it’s all about motivation. There’s the kind that bubbles up from the inside and makes you do things just because you love them (intrinsic motivation). And then there’s the “carrot-on-a-stick” kind, where you do stuff for the reward (extrinsic... Continue Reading
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From diapers to tuition, from school supplies to college room and board, you’ve invested your own savings to ensure a strong career outcome for your child. You’ve dedicated your time and resources to secure a prosperous future for your child, often putting them ahead of your own retirement savings. Congratulations! There are no regrets when we invest in our child’s health, well-being, and future. Unfortunately, according to the US Department of Labor, only about 51 percent of all private-sector workers are earning retirement benefits at work, and many lack a basic understanding... Continue Reading
How often have you thought of the holidays as an anthropological expedition? I had the pleasure to speak with Cher Murphy, an anthropologist and leadership advisor, to get her take on the holidays and how we can best navigate what can (for some) be the trickiest time of the year. Cher’s unique perspective allows us to explore strategies for navigating the holiday season with intention and joy. In this blog post, we’ll uncover Cher’s wisdom on being present, fostering creativity, becoming a force for good, and the power of reflection during the festive season. Being Present:Cher... Continue Reading
Welcome to ‘After 40,’ the podcast where we explore the transformative journey of life beyond midlife. Whether you’re seeking inspiration, guidance, or a fresh perspective on life’s rich possibilities after 40, this podcast is your go-to source for reshaping how we approach the second half of life. Join us on ‘After 40,’ and let’s navigate this exciting journey together! If you prefer a video, check out the podcast video below! Subscribe on Spotify or Apple to get new episodes right when they drop! Post your questions in the comments. I’m always... Continue Reading
Welcome to the Giving Season! As November and December unfold, we find ourselves immersed in the joy of selecting or creating thoughtful gifts for friends and family, alongside extending our generosity to various charitable causes. The timeless wisdom of “Tis better to give than to receive” takes on added significance during these holiday months, especially as we navigate the intricate journey of midlife. It is during this stage that a deep-seated desire to give back, free from expectations, comes to the forefront—a phenomenon recognized as generativity, a term crafted by the... Continue Reading
Welcome to ‘After 40,’ the podcast where we explore the transformative journey of life beyond midlife. Whether you’re seeking inspiration, guidance, or a fresh perspective on the rich possibilities life offers after 40, this podcast is your go-to source for reshaping how we approach the second half of life. Join us on ‘After 40,’ and let’s navigate this exciting journey together! If you prefer video, check out the podcast video below! Subscribe on Spotify or Apple to get new episodes right when they drop! Do Not Miss An Episode! 🎙️✨Listen & Subscribe... Continue Reading
