Understanding Your Child’s Behavior – When it’s Their Nervous System Crying out for Connection and Regulation

Understanding Your Child’s Behavior - When it’s Their Nervous System Crying out for Connection and Regulation Karin Jakubowski, Ed.D. 14:00

In this podcast episode I sit down with Dr. Lori Desautels and I love what she said, “Behavior management is about adult behavior. It’s not about kids. Our brains and bodies hold the state of our nervous systems, and it takes a steady adult to settle a child or adolescent.”

I was hanging on her every word that she spoke at Delaware’s Trauma Awareness Conference last month. She was the keynote speaker and I attended her breakout session. I’m planning to read her books and have been following her on YouTube and tiktok.

I just love what she said in one of her sessions listen to this, “When we share a safe emotionally available sanctuary of space and a trusting presence, students can borrow from our calm in moments of dysregulation.” – Dr. Lori Desautels

“Coregulation is often non-verbal. Coregulation is our biological priority. Coregulation is at the heart of discipline protocols.” – Dr. Lori Desautels

“The adult nervous system drives trauma work.” – Dr. Lori Desautels”

“Trauma gets stored in the body but can show up in our relationships,” says Dr. Wong.

I told you she is filled with GOLD NUGGETS! Thank you Dr. Desautels!

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More about the Host – Dr. Karin Jakubowski is an Elementary Public School Principal of a National Blue Ribbon School. She is passionate about helping moms first take care of themselves to be their best for their kids. She helps parents with a problem solving process when their child is experiencing challenging behaviors and helps empower women through holding space on this journey to help them grow and connect authentically with themselves and their kids. It’s time to let go of what others think of us, live outside the box, and live in the freedom to explore who we really are without limitation.

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Dr. Karin Jakubowski is an Elementary Public School Principal, Host of the Podcast, "Momnificent", Certified Master Life Coach and Speaker. She is passionate about helping moms first take care of themselves to be their best for their kids.

Dr. Karin Jakubowski created the Podcast, "Momnificent" after close to two decades of dedicated work within the education system. Her vast experience includes Certified Master Life Coach, Speaker and Principal of one of the top 50 schools in the nation, as well as a National Blue Ribbon School (2021). Over time, her experience in leadership revealed the need for more collaborative problem solving strategies when it came to behavior management. The dominant approach to correction or intervention just wasn’t working, and she found that using more intuitive tactics coupled with family connection prompted powerful results.