How do you transform conflicts into kind conversations? Lisa Brateman, LCSW, is a psychotherapist, relationship specialist, public speaker, and media commentator with more than two decades of experience. She offers individual, couples, and group Therapy in New York City. Her areas of expertise include Anxiety and Depression, couples therapy—marital and premarital—and conflict resolution. She’s the author of What Are We Really Fighting About?: How to Transform Conflicts into Conversations [Rowman & Littlefield Publishers; September 2024] and The Courage to Walk Away: Move On after Infidelity by Mourning What You Lost, Identifying Your Relationship Needs, and Empowering Yourself for the Future [Ulysses Press; February 2024].

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• What is a successful and helpful fight?  
• Does it mean you FINALLY AGREE on something?    
• Will this book help me get what I need/want?
• A lot of people are afraid of fighting, what would you say to them?
• What do you mean when you say winning the point is losing the battle for a happy relationship?
• Can we come back from a knock down fight when we say hurtful things?
• What do you say to the person who thinks it’s my way or the highway?

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