Welcome to Episode 72 of the ANEW Insight Podcast, hosted by clinical psychologist, registered dietitian, and bestselling author Dr. Supatra Tovar. In this powerful and thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Tovar sits down with board-certified psychiatrist, author, and Ruthless Compassion podcaster Dr. Marcia Sirota to explore the transformative power of ruthless compassion—a concept that blends empathy with clear boundaries, emotional strength, and radical honesty.
Dr. Sirota, based in Toronto, Canada, brings over 25 years of experience in Trauma recovery, Mental Health, and personal empowerment. Together, they dive deep into what it means to be kind without becoming a doormat, how to set boundaries without guilt, and why people-pleasing is often a Trauma response rooted in early experiences of powerlessness. This episode breaks down how developing “ruthless compassion” can help individuals heal from Trauma, reclaim their power, and stop enabling harmful behavior in themselves and others.
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Dr. Sirota shares clinical Wisdom, real-life examples, and philosophical insights to help listeners see that compassion doesn’t mean tolerating everything or giving yourself (or others) a free pass. Instead, she advocates for truth-telling, accountability, and empowerment as the core of authentic healing. Whether you’re a therapist, Trauma survivor, caregiver, or someone working on boundary-setting, this episode will give you actionable strategies for reclaiming your voice and emotional safety.
Dr. Tovar and Dr. Sirota also discuss the overlap between complex PTSD and personality disorders, how fawning behaviors block authentic Relationships, and why labeling Trauma survivors without compassion does more harm than good. This is a must-listen episode for anyone seeking to understand how Trauma affects identity, behavior, and healing—and how to rise above it through fierce, intentional self-Love.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where we explore Dr. Sirota’s book Be Kind, Not Nice and what it truly means to become a Kindness Warrior in today’s world.
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